Why Some Nigerians Are Quietly Leaving Canada, the US, and the UK to Return Home

When you hear about Nigerians moving abroad, the usual places pop up: Canada, the United States, and the United Kingdom. For many, these countries mean better opportunities, safer communities, and good education for their kids.

But here’s something people don’t talk about enough — some Nigerians are quietly packing up and moving back home to Nigeria. Surprised? You’re not alone.

So, why do people who fought so hard to “japa” (leave) decide to go back? Let’s break it down.

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The Hype vs The Reality

Let’s be honest. For many, moving abroad is a dream come true. Free schools for your kids. Better hospitals. Steady power supply. And a peaceful neighborhood. These are things that can feel like a miracle when you’re coming from Nigeria.

But for some, when they arrive, they find a different reality. Getting a good job abroad can be tough — especially if you don’t plan well.

Here’s the thing: a lot of new immigrants rush to big cities like Toronto or London. But big cities mean more people fighting for the same jobs. The cost of rent, food, and transportation can be really high too.

Some who can’t handle the stress start to feel stuck. For many, the only option that makes sense is to go home.

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👥 Missing Community and Connection

If you grew up in Nigeria, you know how much community means. Back home, we have churches, mosques, and plenty of social groups. There’s always a wedding, naming ceremony, or August meeting to attend. Even ordinary Sundays feel like a mini party.

Abroad, it’s different. Yes, there are Nigerian groups and associations. But it’s not the same. Many people feel lonely. You might live beside your neighbor for years and still not know their name.

For example, in New Brunswick (Canada), there’s a big WhatsApp group for Nigerian women — more than 1,000 members! It helps, but it can’t replace the small, tight family gatherings you have back home.

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💸 The Silent Pressure to “Make It”

This one is huge. For many Nigerians abroad, there’s this silent pressure to show people back home that “you’re making it.”

It doesn’t matter if you’re stressed or tired — you keep pushing. You take on two or three jobs because you must send money home. After all, people see “abroad” as a money tree.

The fear of being called a failure eats people up inside. Many feel stuck between chasing dollars and trying not to lose themselves. Over time, this can lead to burnout, mental health struggles, or just plain unhappiness.

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🔄 The Turning Point — When Enough is Enough

So when do people decide to pack up and leave? Everyone’s story is different, but here are some common reasons:

A lot of people find their peace of mind again once they’re back in Nigeria — surrounded by family, friends, and a familiar way of life.

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📝 Planning to Move Abroad? Here’s What You Should Know

So, does this mean Canada, the US, or the UK failed them? No. The truth is: these countries didn’t fail them — the plan was just incomplete.

If you’re planning to move abroad, do this instead:

✅ Plan properly — financially, emotionally, and mentally.
✅ Pick a smaller city if you can. Fewer people means less job competition.
✅ Build your own community — join local groups and meet people.
✅ Keep your expectations realistic. Abroad is good, but it’s not heaven.

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💭 What Do You Think?

Are you living abroad? Or planning to move soon? Maybe you’re one of those who returned home. What’s your experience? Share your story in the comments — someone out there could learn from you.

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Till next time — stay strong, plan well, and remember: no matter where you live, your happiness matters. 🌍💚

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